I was talking with a friend recently and we were talking about how it seems like whenever we try to look good and we see ourselves in a mirror or a photo or something we think that we don't look as good. But when we're not trying to look good we see ourselves as looking better. I was thinking about it and I think because we want to look good and we try to look good we can't see ourselves as looking good because were trying to fit a mold but when we are just being ourselves and not trying to look like anything then we just see ourselves as looking better because we are try not trying to fit any expectations.